Everyone has their own agenda. I do too. I cook because I want my family to remember me for my cooking. I want to give them good memories.
The problem is, you can never do things FOR other people. They either take them for granted or they resent them.
Take my child, for instance. I left a careerI loved for him, so I could take care of him myself instead of a day care. Today, thanks in part to his enabling father, he is a lazy, entitled piece of shit who told me; “you’re always trying to spend time with me, right? (“yeah”) Tell, me, how is that working out for you??” You little piece of shit. I lost my beloved career because of you. Thanks, asshole.
Then my husband. He is giving me a hard time about my kid spending his summer in bed. His kid spent a good 2 years -more like 3 years- sleeping for 15 hours a day and playing video games from 3PM till 3AM in the morning. His response to me pointing this out?? “He NEVER did that”. He didn’t??? “I never saw him”. “Wellll I did” ” He didn’t”. WOW.
People just suck.